Catching the early warning signs of a gambling addiction can save you serious headaches. Look out for these personal and external clues:
Personal Signs
1. You Can’t Stop Thinking About It
If you’re daydreaming about where to place your bet on the next EPL match when you should be focusing on a report or chatting at a Harambee gathering, that’s a red flag.
2. Betting Bigger, More Often
First it’s KSh 200, then KSh 1,000, then you’re topping up KSh 3,000 to chase a bigger win. Feeling unsatisfied with smaller stakes means you need more to get the same thrill.
3. Chasing Your Losses
After losing, you think, "I’ll just win it back with one more spin." That "just one more" often leaves you digging a deeper hole.
4. Feeling Jittery When You Pause
Try to take a break and find yourself restless or on edge? Mood swings like irritability or anxiety when not playing are like withdrawal symptoms.
5. Skipping Real-Life Stuff
If you’ve missed a Harambee meeting or ghosted family dinner because you’re glued to your device, gambling is taking over.
External Signs
1. Money Woes
Unexplained loans, maxed-out M-Pesa limits, or disappearing savings all point to trouble. If you’re borrowing to bet, it’s time to pause.
2. Wild Mood Swings
A huge win puts you on cloud nine, but a loss has you feeling down or snapping at loved ones. Those highs and lows shouldn’t derail your daily life.
3. Slipping at Work
Showing up late, sneaking off to place bets during breaks, or missing deadlines all mean gambling is stealing your focus.
4. Ducking Social Plans
If you’re always "busy" whenever friends invite you out—"sorry, I’m on a hot streak"—you’re letting gambling call the shots.
Noticing one or two signs doesn’t mean you’ve lost control, but it’s smart to reassess your online gambling addiction risk and adopt responsible gambling practices.